They are not telling something about you and what you deserve, while doing those things. They are telling something about themselves and about their own worth as a human being. About how much they think that they can give. About how kind, empathetic and caring they can be.
And yet, it is always up to you to choose the kind of person that you want to be.
The person that strikes back and gets lost in drama and wicked games, or the person that is able to focus on what really matters.
So, if you ask me... in those moments you should focus on your own life, go over it and move on. You should forgive, but without forgetting. And without accepting what hurts you.
Forgiving is not about you giving someone else another chance to hurt you, it is about you giving yourself a chance to heal, and to look forward to all good things in life that are already waiting for you.
So never forget it. And then smile, and move on. You will not regret it.
Tags: Human dynamics, Bad relationships, Behaviour, People, Quotes
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